Hi Eva!
Wonderful to hear from you, seems you've figured out how to use the forum out pretty well and quickly!

Its so exciting for us to be making these connections and realising how Anastasia's wisdom is spreading like wildfire. One tiny spark is all that is required to burn up a mountain of dry straw..
This could be the revolutionary change that no-one was expecting or could have envisaged! As Daniel Quinn points out in 'Ishmael' (excuse the paraphrasing): A system like so-called civilization can defend itself against almost anything but it is powerless against desertion!
Its great that you and your husband are both being inspired by the beautiful vision of Anastasia' dream. They have fueled our ideals and given us a strong sense of being right on track when we were surrounded by scorn, derision and skeptical criticism from friends and family. It's wonderful to be discovering that we are not the only ones to have these ideals of a beautiful earth and a rich experience of localised life in a paradise of supportive life-forms.
The only way to learn gardening is by getting your hands dirty so you are doing the right thing there! You are obviously well on the way and we wish you joy and success in your endeavour! Our major sources of gardening information have been the Permaculture people (Bill Mollison et al), Robert Hart's 'Forest Gardening' described in Patrick Whitefields's "How to Make a Forest Garden" and Masanobu Fukuoka (he wrote 'The One Straw Revolution' - absolutely essential reading!). One of the most important things we have learned is that the ground should never be dug or uncovered. Especially in our climate. Mulching in place is essential and intercropping with legumes to provide nitrogen directly to the roots is a fine way to fertilise. We use a rich mix of kraal manure too. Encourage earthworms, they are the most amazing soil workers, stimulating rich soil life, guiding water deep down and aerating, indispensable. As are moles!!
Monkeys are probably the most destructive and difficult problem to solve. We have found that our chicken-mesh enclosed garden inside the walls of the old shop (20m X 15m X 3.5m) is a solution to birds, hail and probably monkeys too. Until we have an established forest outside this will be our source of nourishment. Outside of the walled garden we also have fruit and nut trees that are thriving but the fruit is stripped by the birds shortly after it starts to form. Anything that survives the birds and hail out there we regard as a bonus. In time as more trees grow to full size and (hopefully) more of our neighbours start gardening in this way the harvest from 'outside' will increase. We know that the most important thing is to get as many trees established outside as possible. Macadamias, pecans, almonds all seem to do well here. Natal Mahogony also is a good solid windbreak and provides dense shade and good timber in time. You could probably also get pistachios growing in your area.
Our diet is becoming predominantly raw and after reading Victoria Boutenko's 'Green for Life' we are eating green-smoothies on a daily basis with all the greens picked fresh from the garden, augmented by hearty salads and occasional rice/beans/potatoes. We are growing oats already and have discovered that it is a perenial as are all the grains! So once established it is a matter of plucking the dry kernels as you need them! There are almost always a few seed heads that are ready to eat. We just sowed Spelt, Barley, Buckwheat and Rye so in time we should have a nice selection of grains to eat. We are going to try growing rice according to Fukuoka's prescription (without flooding a paddy) but we have not yet begun as we have so much else that still occupies us. We are also eating gooseberries almost every day now. Delicious!
Stone Pines are a good substitute for the Siberian Pines as they also produce edible nuts. Im not sure that we have an indigenous tree that could replace the Siberian Cedar - maybe the Maroela? Maroelas produce prodigious quantities of delicious fruit and the kernels are hugely nourishing and loaded with good oils too. We have one tree that survived last years fire growing back from the roots and they should grow well in your area too.
Another wonderful source of almost everything is Goji berries which we got growing from a pack we bought in a health store. Fabulous nutrient profile! Time will tell whether we get them established and thriving.
Around our perimeter fence we have planted a mixture of rambling roses, brambles, succulents, aloes and sharp pointed agave. The locals run herds of goats and cattle so we were obliged to erect a fence as the first major project we undertook. Goats = no trees/desert! Cattle = major erosion problems... We also have a problem with veld fires every winter (as do you if Im not mistaken) and this mix is fairly fire resistant, we think. We maintain an 8 - 10 metre firebreak inside the fence which we cut using a smelly, noisy brush cutter for now. Soon we will have a few sheep to nibble it short constantly, perhaps a couple of donkeys to help them as well... and we'll get hard workers, wool and milk in return.
Thanks for coming forward, being part of a beautiful community and living a life that will uplift all.
Keep in contact!
regards
Dwight